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Notice · Orient · Choose

A Gentle Reflection Guide

Use this page when a feeling or familiar reaction asks for your attention. You do not need to solve the whole story—only notice what is here and choose one supportive next step.

1

Notice

What can I observe without judging it? Begin with a body sensation, an emotion, a thought or an urge.

2

Orient

Where am I right now? Name three neutral details you can see, hear or physically feel in the present.

3

Choose

What is the smallest supportive next step available to me? It might be pausing, moving, writing, asking for clarity or seeking support.